Share Your Story
Share your Synergy memories - an anecdote, an experience, a funny story, or how Synergy has shaped your life.
Although I may have been destined to become a licensed marriage and family therapist from the start, I believe that Synergy pushed me towards a life of healing myself and others through the lessons of love, caring, empathy, and joy. Synergy values diversity, connection, sharing, and wisdom, and taught me all of those powerfully.
I have so many amazing memories of Synergy, and they will always be cherished ones. They range from numerous adventures on field trips and backpacking trips, play performances, play in general, and weekly meetings as vice president of the Anti-Veal Club (Christopher Rice was naturally president).
Synergy will always be a huge part of my life, so much so that Tammy and Elena (retired Synergy teachers) were guests at my wedding a few years ago. The love and care that Synergy embodies is everlasting, and if I had children, I would send them there in a heartbeat. Wishing the entire community blessings, past, present, and future.
–Terence Baugh, Alum, Class of 1988
(Terence is the Director of Behavioral Health at the San Francisco-based non-profit Center on Juvenile and Criminal Justice.)
I was nervous as I went up the stairs to my job interview at Synergy School on Grove Street in June 1983. Here I was, a product of SF public schools, the parent of two public school students and a teacher fully committed to public education, applying to teach in a private school. If I get the job, I’ll just stay a few years and hopefully the public schools will begin hiring again, I reasoned.
I did get the job teaching kindergarten, and in August I attended my first Synergy event—a picnic celebrating Synergy’s tenth anniversary. People came from all over, thrilled to see each other, full of stories of their Synergy experiences. I was flabbergasted that people came together to joyfully celebrate their elementary school (!!). It was beginning to occur to me that this was no ordinary school.
Teaching at Synergy is not for the faint at heart. From the first hour of my first day at Synergy, we were off and running, creating curriculum, debating ways to help students assume responsibility, getting to know each other as teammates, and moving furniture into classrooms. It never stopped. I was constantly challenged to be the best teacher I could be, to constantly revisit my assumptions, and to make myself a better teacher and the school the best possible environment for learning. It was intellectually and emotionally challenging and infinitely rewarding.
Now that I’ve been retired for 5 years, after 30 years at Synergy, I still miss the creativity of curriculum development and the close community of students, families, and teachers. In a few short years, Synergy will celebrate fifty years and I imagine new teachers discovering the uniqueness of Synergy at what will undoubtedly be a grand celebration.
–Elena Dillon, Synergy Trustee, former Director of Admissions and Synergy Teacher
P.S. – My daughter, Jennifer Dillon, graduated from Synergy in ‘89 and my grandson, Jeffrey Jamil Dillon, graduated in ‘06.
As our older daughter gets ready to graduate from Synergy, it’s a natural time to think back on Masey’s and our family's experience. The other bookend to this time is the first moment we came through the doors during an open house. We were met by two young students, who greeted us, asked where we were hoping to go, and cheerfully guided us there. We were struck by how at ease they were, how kind and comfortable they were greeting visitors. They behaved like someone would at their own home. As we followed them through the halls, there were more kids, all with that same glide in their step and the same energy. The students’ relationships seemed almost like siblings, and the whole school had a feeling of family.
Now, we're a part of that family. Synergy has become like a second home to us as well. The staff knows our daughters as whole people, who have had the chance to engage with this school totally, explore passionately, and walk the path of finding out who they are.
And just like a family home, this place will serve as a lode star for them, supporting and guiding their choices as they go through the world, even long after they've left.
Ian & Yvonne Milham, Masey - Class of 2019, and Zara - Class of 2022
Have you ever walked by someplace and thought, “It looks so cool in there. What are they doing? I want to be a part of that.” In my life B.C. (before children), I would walk by Synergy for years on my way to the bus stop. I could hear the joyful voices of the children playing and laughing, and the teachers were always smiling. I could see kids climbing trees and running around and I would think - This is what learning should look and feel like. Fast forward a couple of years and when it came time for Jose and I to think about choosing a school for Christian, the vision I had for his learning brought me back to the memory of Synergy. With 2 younger brothers, we knew whatever school we choose, we were in it for the long term. We were looking for more than a school; we were looking for a community of learners whose vision for life was in alignment with our family goals. We wanted a community that celebrates diversity and is committed to inclusion and social justice. As a family, we talk a lot about making the world better, the importance of standing up for others and ourselves, and practicing more kindness. As parents, Jose and I are still learning how to broach these conversations, which in recent times seems to be even more challenging, but we feel completely supported by the Synergy staff and Synergy families. Christian is in the 2nd grade now and we are enjoying watching him grow and thrive at Synergy. We are so thankful to be a part of the Synergy family and look forward to many more years to come.
The Valle Family